Art is born where intellect and heart collide in my humble opinion. Therefore it would be safe to assume artists to be effective and even adept communicators. In fact generally speaking that is what an artist does; communicate efficaciously using a certain medium. Now stay with me, I am mentioning this because tonight I learned a lesson, a lesson that had been coming at me hard for the last few weeks, a lesson that really wanted to be taught.
I have always considered myself a very engaging and effective listener. I have an online communication test result to prove that. I quote “You seem to realize that empathy is an essential part of good interpersonal skills and therefore, will do your best to place yourself in other people’s shoes in order to better understand them.†I do. I really do. Yet tonight I experienced a different tone that even I was somewhat deaf to. That is the “mindset.†At one point I almost named my production company that. Luckily it was taken. Please do stay with me because a point is to be made, I promise.
Generally speaking when communicating with friends and family, we have a mindset. We have a set of assumptions and notations that define our relation and ties to the other person. The closer the relationship, the stronger is the conjecture. So as a conclusion I have learned tonight that it is necessary to leave a frame of mind outside the door frame when communicating with loved ones.
Babak Yousefi
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