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This is what I normally do. I please her first. I use whatever means necessary – usually the hands, mouth and mini-me, to bring her to orgasm first before taking my turn. Secondly, I let her be on top. The reason? Well, when a woman’s on top of you, your mini-me is less stimulated, and her chances of orgasm is higher.
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September 27th, 2007 at 12:26am
And there you have it boys. Listen to Mr gallivanter.
September 27th, 2007 at 12:59am
You’re my sex therapist now. Hehe
September 27th, 2007 at 3:35am
Do lots of “Senaman HARIMAU”.
September 27th, 2007 at 6:54am
Oh.
Mel is one VERY happy woman!
September 27th, 2007 at 8:11am
i like that… when a woman’s on top of you…
besides,she makes all the work being there
thanks,dr gallivanter.
September 27th, 2007 at 9:19am
eh! i was looking forward to a longer one
i mean the post! =P
September 27th, 2007 at 9:34am
everybody should try it.. but then again.. there got a lot of women. so I don’t think they’ll react the same with the same tactics.
September 27th, 2007 at 9:34am
Kopi Jantan Pak Abu Samad… makey lovey long time’
September 27th, 2007 at 9:36am
kopi = coffee
Jantan = male
Pak Abu Samad = sum random malay guy’s name i made up
September 27th, 2007 at 10:03am
dude, why dont u start a talk show bout matters of sex? Become the Malaysian male version of Dr.Ruth…
September 27th, 2007 at 10:03am
interesting entry
i am on the same page as huei, lol.
September 27th, 2007 at 10:44am
bro but when she is on top she is on control man … basically once she is on top she is in the driving position man …
hahaha
try “gambir sarawak” hehehe
September 27th, 2007 at 10:51am
I was looking for a longer post too…….It’s so unlike you to blog so little when you’re experience in this topic … LoL…
Anyway, to last a lil’ longer… try changing positions every now and then.. It helps plus she won’t be the one in driving position all da time.. Have some control, have your say
September 27th, 2007 at 11:44am
how to last longer in bed?… wah hahaha…take sleeping pills lah. hahaha… so simple.
September 27th, 2007 at 1:48pm
Sha LOL. Well, there are days when all you want is a quickie.
earthy emily Yikes, I don’t deserve such honor, it’s still a learning process.
pucklepickle *GROWLS*
ethel Errr, well, not all the time of course.
tincho sambora Oral sex amigo is the key, but it needs to be done emotionally rather than objectively.
huei Well, this is the first step for men, the rest, it all boils down to your partner’s needs and how you adapt.
mystarhill Obviously, but in general, the elements are the same.
Mo You tried it?
Kavilan No la, I’m not at that level yet.
satkuru In time my friend, in time…
earl-ku It doesn’t matter who’s in control when she’s on top, the thing is, your mini-me is the “safest” at that position.
Terence Lai I think I’ve post a few entries similar to this hence I kept it concise. Changing positions do help, it buys you “time”, but the dangerous thing is when you find a position which excites you…then lasting longer will be a problemo.
LC_Teh You mean give your partner sleeping pills? Hmm, that might work.
September 27th, 2007 at 4:07pm
“please her first” – yes true, this is what we called LADIES FIRST.
“let her be on top-your mini-me is less stimulated” – this one I’m not really sure (personally, I’m not really agree.. hehe). I think this way is the fastest way men to reach orgasm :p
One fact i read about make-love. Man is like driving a Formula 1, speed is counted, that’s why most of the time reach orgasm in 3 minutes :p – and Woman is like driving a Cadillac (or any antique car), the style of driving is important – as Dr John Gray said in his book, MARS AND VENUS IN THE BEDROOM by John Gray (the best sex book i ever had read…so far… hehe)
September 27th, 2007 at 6:43pm
agree, foreplay is important..
September 27th, 2007 at 11:46pm
good advice bro..
September 27th, 2007 at 11:58pm
Aaaa….how to last less longer ah?
September 28th, 2007 at 1:45am
:S oral sex…
i dont like fish but…
if dr gallivanter says that. xD
September 28th, 2007 at 1:02pm
i’m sure any woman who is on top would feel more in control too…
September 28th, 2007 at 5:17pm
Alb I like John Gray, but only his first book.
Wannabe Economist OLE! High five amigo!
cdason It’s a start for us men I would say…as long as we’re winning to learn and improve…
weichuen Doggy style.
tincho sambora Well, sometimes you need to sacrifice your nose for greater rewards…
Yvy Definitely, while we men at the bottom can chug a beer while at it. And they say we can’t multi-task! LOL
November 2nd, 2007 at 8:33pm
sometimes girls don’t like to be on top.
November 3rd, 2007 at 5:28pm
How long can you usually last before spilling it?
November 4th, 2007 at 8:28pm
I found girl on top quite painful and intense. There is one trick though, just before you ejaculate, pull back your testes gently, and you’ll easily last another 10-15 minutes.
Mind, its been 6 years since I’ve done anything like that, but its like riding a bicycle, ……you never forget.
Men really have three erogenous zones, and I am not telling you where the g-spot is on a man…..you’ll be disgusted if I told you. Meanwhile, women are interesting…..the whole body is an erogenous zone.
Simply put, treat a lady like a kettle, bring to the boil slowly and surely. Men on the other hand, we tend to like it fast and furious. Theres sex, theres shagging and then theres making love. Making love is an art, and I suppose thats why many women prefer slightly older men.
November 5th, 2007 at 11:57am
sara Agreed, the key is communicating with your partner to maximize sexual escapades.
Curious Well, it varies based on circumstances. Mel knows. Keep on being curious, we need to get rid of cats of this world.
Diarmuid The first para is spot on. I think it’s all in the mind as well. As for men’s erogenous zone, yup, I know where they are, and thanks for not sharing it here.