Look, it’s just that easy. ACCEPT yourself, without any conditions, without being critical. Be comfortable with who you are. Happiness is just a state of mind, so, no one can make you unhappy but yourself. If you remain positive whenever life throw you curve balls, your resolution to solve them will come faster. You’ll have a smile on your face. Trust me.
Prioritize. As you age, job pressure usually increases with the threat of young guns threatening to take over from you. It is CRUCIAL that you learn how to balance work and play. Don’t let any aspect become the main focus that it affects the other.
Stay in the presence of positive people – if you have a friends who whine and moan all the time, chances are, you’ll be one of them, a full-time sulk. Seek cheerful and happy people, like myself. I’ve been through many downs that it has made me a positive person.
Simple ain’t it?
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January 10th, 2008 at 8:08am
are u happy?
January 10th, 2008 at 10:43am
i always believe…. it’s not about compromise… but acceptance.
January 10th, 2008 at 12:09pm
How very true…most people are placed in the same position, but the difference between the happy and the sad people is how the adapt to the situation at hand.
January 11th, 2008 at 6:29pm
God, Daniel, enough with the holier than thou articles already la! Happiness,online dating,relationship tips. All of a sudden, you turned so mellow and very patronising. I love reading your reviews on music,but lately,theres been less of those and more of Dr Phill-like a posts. Anyway,aside from the melancholic posts, your blog is still one of my favourites.
January 14th, 2008 at 1:25pm
Did not make it to your b’day lah chief. Sorry ah. But at least you are happy eh?
January 14th, 2008 at 10:25pm
clement Overall, yes I am. I’m thankful.
zewt I suppose.
Giddy Tigress Exactly, a happy person and a sad person handles the same situation differently.
Shasha Chacko Well thank you for your feedback.
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January 11th, 2009 at 6:07pm
Nice post! I wish everyone feels and thinks the same…
Be postive and stay positive…
Stay away from sulky people.. he,he,he….
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